Wednesday, December 11, 2013

Christmas 2013


We are coming to the close of another year!
This year I typed out a letter to include with our Christmas card.  It was sent to friends and family that aren't local.   Since my "to do list" this coming break includes the printing of this blog, I thought I'd include it here since it is a good recap of what the Lord is doing in our family right now.
I'll leave you with that letter.......
 
Dear Friends & Family from around the world!                                                                                                
This year I thought add to the usual Christmas card and include a bit of news from the Valks in Canada!
Overall we are enjoying our busy life, rich in many blessings from the Lord!
Eric has been blessed with a lot of work which include various construction/maintenance type jobs for a variety of people and companies, mostly church going folks.  He enjoys the variety, but because he is self-contracting himself he has the flexibility to make himself “not available” on days or weeks we are doing things as a family.  He has struggled at times with back issues (crushed disc) and earlier this year, his one knee causing pain.   Minor surgery in June fixed that up and we are thankful to the Lord for continued strength given for Eric to work hard in mostly physical work.   Eric is currently enjoying a year (at least) off from consistory work as well as the rest of the family are happy to have less meetings on the schedule.  We continue to make some money “on the side” by purchasing young cows in the spring (this year we had 10!), letting them graze our land over the warmer months and come October they are off to the family freezers of friends!    In the early summer we also fill our barn with small hay bales, which we then sell on during the winter months to horse farmers in the area.   It is all good physical labour to keep our small army “occupied.”
I (Christine) am thoroughly enjoying our homeschool year this year!  I do know that I am nearing the top of Mt. Everest in terms of the age spread of the children.  Two high school, three in the middle, and one new reader!  And don’t forget the not quite two year…but we’ll get to him later!  I enjoy the challenge of and variety for this brain of mine!  There is no doubt that I sleep well at night!   God continues to answer my prayers with the strength needed to accomplish all (or most, or some!) of what is needed to get done.  Mostly I can attest that He is near me at the times when things don’t go as planned and the “planned” turns into teachable and sanctifying moments for ALL concerned!
I am enjoying my continued work in the church library, with the added bonus of being able to preview many wonderful resources for faith and life!  My sister and I enjoy doing a bit freelance photography here and there as well.   We have done newborns, families and even a few weddings over the last 4 years or so.  It is a joy to get the creative juices flowing and bless families with precious memories in photos.
Our Jacob will be turning 16 next week (Nov 27).   He is intense, dedicated, logical, and creative and it is wonderful seeing him develop into a fine young man!  He has left the world of gecko breeding and is exploring different passions!  The musical instruments in his room include an acoustic guitar, electric guitar (with amp), and a jimbe (drum).    You will also find various pencil and pen sketches scattered around his room.  Eric and I both have one sister each, and each of them are very talented artists…it would seem that those “aunt” genes are coming through with Jacob.  Actually as I type I gave him a box of old frames and he is framing some of his sketches to display at a “teen art show” at the local library.  He might even sell a few!  Jacob has been working for about 1.5 years at the local library which he enjoys far more than “boring mind numbing” greenhouse work!  He filled his summer with work and volunteering as a leader at the local Bible children’s camp.  Jacob takes his school work very seriously, and while struggling some with physics, he excels at his written work.  He is doing a course where he will write a whole novel over the course of the year and he wanted to take a persuasive writing and speech course which is being marked by an outside company.   It is hilarious for me to think this is the same child that just about died when he was 6 and had to write a whole sentence!  All good!  He is unsure what he wants “to do” in the years to come, but we do know that the Lord has given him many talents and gifts.  We are seeking to trust Him, and that He will make it clear.  We are happy that we have an open relationship with Jacob as he often will express his musings over life and God’s ways; we are able to see the Lord working in His heart of which it is a delight to witness!   
Our dear daughter Macayla is 14 years old.   She is quite the social bug and we are very grateful that the Lord has placed some lovely girls as dear friends in her life.  Macayla has an abundance of patience for her youngest brother, perhaps not quite as much for the bigger brothers though!   She is always happy to help in the kitchen and for many months  was happy to be the “baker” for her dad’s deacon meetings.  She has babysitting jobs here and there and has also done some greenhouse work in the spring.  I had Macayla home for a lot of this past summer, which we a huge blessing to me.  She did volunteer at the same Bible Camp as Jacob for 3 weeks and does a wonderful job at leading the singing and working with the children.   Macayla works steady at her schoolwork and although it doesn’t come easy to her, she is happy to re-work assignments as required.  She is also having written work corrected by others, which has been a blessing to get that critique and encouragement.    She loves to shop and is beyond thrilled when we can carve out time to get to the big mall!   God is also working in her heart as she is quick to serve others in our church community and her home.
Justin and Kadin will be the 13 years old in January!  Wow!   Despite VERY different personalities, they have MANY of the same interests which is why they can be included together.  They are both passionate about the cadet program at church, working hard to complete many badges.  They also love the snow derby where many of the local churches form teams within their club and compete against each other in the wonderful winter setting of SNOW (or if there isn’t enough- MUD!)!  Events include fire building, first aid, compass work, and overall teamwork.   Justin and Kadin love to quiz each other using the derby manual to gain maximum points for their team.   Their bedroom is a Lego wonderland!  For birthdays and saving money they have accumulated many different large sets, and will spend hours creating and recreating.  Justin and Kadin have both gained a “reputation” of two hard-working lads!  Unlike their oldest brother they thrive doing physical labour.  They are our number one “hay” workers. They have been hired here and there for various church people and although they are still young we can see them working in some sort of trade.  Justin and Kadin also work steady at their schoolwork and can quite often be found working in the morning before breakfast, to have more playtime later.  Kadin is our real tender heart.   At times, I could see him working in some sort of “care” job with seniors and other special people. Justin, although the “louder” twin is also ready to help others.  A man from our church conducts a “mini” church service at a local seniors’ home, and Justin and Kadin often go along to help.
Our delightful 9 year is Levi.  The first of our Canadian born children!   Levi follows close behind his twin brothers with his love for and collection of Lego.  I can count on at least 30 minutes of absolute silence with four brothers huddled on the couch each time the Lego magazine arrives at our house!  Levi is a very friendly boy and is often invited to different friend’s houses each Sunday.   Levi loves hay season as well, and easily climbs the full wagon to push bales down to those working below.  He has joined cadets this year as well and looks forward to it each week.  He works steady at his schoolwork and has a particular knack for geography (country names).
Gideon is one of our 5 out of 9 birthdays in January when he will turn six!  He is also in on the Lego fun, weapons, and other all other things “boy.”   He has a knack for the “random” comments or questions, and if you have read my blog at all you will find some of his hilarious conversations there.  He is our new reader in the house!  I have picked an entirely different curriculum to teach him with (a bored mom is not good for anyone!) and we are both thoroughly enjoying it!  He sits in with many of the other subjects and it is surprising what he picks up. 
Malachi, our “baby,” will be TWO is January!  Where does the time fly?  He was a fast mover, crawling last fall and walking around his first birthday.  AND a climber!  I’m glad I had all the help around here to catch him conquering various “mountains.”  Each day is a delight to see what words he says and uses that we didn’t even know he knew!  One day he even took our Gideon’s reading book, flipped it open and started with “eeee,”  “t-t-t-t”,” aaaaaa”!  Maybe he’ll be reading by the time he’s three- that’d be nice and easy for me!  This (school) year he actually plays (instead of destroys!), and when Justin, Kadin, and Levi each have their allotted time each morning to play with it is easy to fill the time with Thomas trains, truck, and animals!  
                                                                                                                                                                                                                               
Now…if you would all imagine a reality TV show based on the perfect behaving overachieving children you might think we would be the top contenders!  Let me assure you that is NOT so!  We have days, many days, actually every day where sin is clearly shown, where attitudes need adjusting, where selfishness is shown (for all nine of us!) and where sometimes there is just WAY too much testosterone flowing around this place!  Sheesh!  Imagine the window in the pet store with puppies rolling around “playing,” only the “creatures” around here are A LOT bigger and louder!
As a family, every three weeks, we enjoy serving snacks and drinks to the local Spanish speaking migrant workers in the area.  It is a wonderful way to serve and for our children to see that there are Christians in the world that look and speak different from us!   Our four oldest are memorizing chapters from James and Romans, participating in Bible Quizzing. Add to that the “regular” meetings of church life, powerful preaching from our (new!) pastor each Sunday, young people’s, Sunday School, catechism, and our life is indeed full!  Such blessings!
All of our Canadian family here is also doing well.  All of my parents’ four children, with spouses and children live within the same region.  My parents have a total of 19 grandchildren to enjoy!  My mom did have major colon-rectal surgery in May of this year.  There was a concern of cancer, but we are ever thankful to the Lord that she was given the “all clear.”  She had one other scheduled surgery related to her case, and possibly one more in the future, but she is healthy and strong and most of all resting in the Lord’s Sovereign plan.  Over the last 7 years, 3 out of 4 of my grandparents passed away.  We fully realize how special and unique it was to enjoy them for as long as we did!
AND for the last year or so we have been setting aside our “hay and cow” money for the ultimate field trip!  Destination New Zealand and Australia!!!   There are many, many details yet to be determined and we will see where the Lord leads us and how it all works out!
MOST OF ALL we see the Lord’s working in our hearts drawing us closer to the cross!  As we live this full life in the midst of the struggles of sin in our lives, messy relationships around us, and the frailty of the body we can attest to an amazing Heavenly Father that is seeking to draw us away from the idols of our hearts and closer to HIM. 
He is refining….and often using fire to do so! 
Well…..I certainly did not intend for the letter to be so long!  Perhaps it is easy to see where Jacob gets his love of writing from!
 
We pray that you all also may attest to the Lord’s direction and nearness in your lives!
With kindest greetings and love,
Eric and Christine, Jacob, Macayla, Justin, Kadin, Levi, Gideon & Malachi


1 comment:

Maria said...

Christine, I so enjoyed reading this! And though I am not and "out of town" friend, and should be all up to date on your life, I learned a lot by reading this letter! Thanks for sharing. :)